CNN has an interesting online report about Egyptian women breaking a longstanding taboo and talking openly about divorce. The reporter says that the proliferation of TV programs, radio shows and blogs about marriage-related issues has helped to ease the stigma still associated with divorce throughout much of the Middle East.
CNN reports that nearly 40 percent of all marriages in Egypt end in divorce, according to 2008 figures from the Central Agency for Public Mobilization and Statistics. That means Egypt has the highest divorce rate in the Arab world.
Highlights from the report:
Once considered taboo to discuss in public, private relationships between men and women are now the hot topic of television talk shows, radio programs and blogs. Mahasen Saber, host of Divorce Radio, says that her program is helping to break the stigma.
"People are shocked at first, but after they read and listen to what we write and present, they like what we talk about...they are happy because I am talking about something they are dealing with" Saber told CNN.
Earlier this year she launched the radio show to complement her blog called "I Want A Divorce."
Sex enters the picture:
Dr. Heba Kotb is a leading sexologist in Cairo who appears regularly on TV. She has two PHD's, one in sexuality from the University of Florida, and she considers herself a conservative Muslim. Dr. Kotb attributes 80 percent of divorce in Egypt to sexual problems.
"In most cases couples simply don't know how to deal sexually with their partner," she told CNN. "I provide the information -- this is right, this is wrong, you should do this."
Egypt's divorce laws:
In Egypt marriage falls under family law, which is based on Shari'a, Islamic religious law, and which gives men and women unequal rights to a divorce.
"In Islamic Shari'a, a man can divorce his wife at any time, in any place, and for any or no reason by simply uttering the following words: "I divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce you," explained Gabriel Sawma an attorney specializing in Muslim divorce law and professor at Farleigh Dickinson University.
Women, on the other hand, can get a divorce only through court action, in a much more formal legal process.
In 2000, Egypt liberalized their laws, granting women the right to initiate a "no-fault" divorce (khula). Though this is considered a step forward, women are still required through khula to relinquish any claim to alimony or their dowry.
A good example of the double-standard so embedded in fundamental religions of all kinds. Worsened by the theocracy of some countries, which marries the law and its requirements and protections to the State's religion, always to bad consequences. With these sad examples rife throughout history and in today's world, is it any wonder some people are atheist, some agnostic, and many anti-organized religion?
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Posted by: don drotman | February 01, 2010 at 03:20 PM
Divorce is terrible here in Egypt, I asked my huband to divorce me and simply laighed at me...Im leading an unhappy life and I feel Im suffering and will continue to suffer for the rest of the foreseable future. I have hit rock bottom now on Xanax twice daily just to see me through the day. The Khula is unfair in this day in age..Im not interested in his money or property I just want to keep my child and and receive child support for our child.
Why do we have to suffer?
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